Casey's story in Casey's words:
"My
name is Casey, and I am a breast cancer survivor. I was diagnosed in
2006 after finding the lump during a self-exam. I remember this
September weekend as if it were yesterday. My daughter Chelsea had just
left to go back to school in Missouri. My husband Randy had left for
Iraq the week before. I found the lump while showering, but actually
didn’t think much of it. Well maybe I did, but I didn’t call my doctor
right away. In fact, my appointment was on Thursday 4 days after
finding it. When I called I think I said something like this.. “ I
found a lump, but it is that time of the month.. so... “ Even before my
gynecologist examined me she said It’s probably nothing.. until she
felt the lump. Her words exactly “wow, that’s a pretty big lump”. They
set me up for a sonogram and mammogram. But I had to wait 2 weeks
for the first available appointment. I think that was probably the
longest 2 weeks of my life. Just waiting..
After the sonogram everything was a whirlwind of activity. Appointments
- consults – tests - decisions.
The sonogram showed the tumor at 4 cm, and the biopsy results proved it
was cancer. It was too large to do a lumpectomy so I knew it was
going to be a mastectomy.
I had the mastectomy of my left breast 2 days after my 47th birthday.
It was a fast growing tumor, by the time it was removed; it was 2 cm
larger than what it was in the sonogram. The size alone put me in Stage
III, after further tests it was determined it was type A. I also found
out it was HER2 positive, which is an aggressive form of breast cancer.
So the treatment was also aggressive. I had chemo for a year and half
then radiation, and more treatment after the radiation targeted
specifically at the HER2 gene.
My hair started falling out 2 weeks to the day of my first chemo
treatment. We joked about pranking someone, by standing in line at a
store and freak out and say “you are driving me crazy” then start
pulling the hair out. I think I did do it with friends and coworkers.
Eventually I had my husband and son shave my head. I did not do a
wig, but chose to wear hats instead. My coworkers sent me a selection
of hats to choose from which made it fun to wear actually.
I think a major contributor to my survivorship is the love, prayers and
support I had from my friends and family. Most of my family lives out
of state, so their support was long distance, but it was still the
support from both my family and friends that helped me make it through
this. I think my positive and upbeat attitude also attributed to the
successful outcome.
Some people start counting the years of survival after treatment is done
and an all clear from the doctor. But when I asked someone about that
at my first outing honoring Breast Cancer survivors, I had someone tell
me as soon as you are diagnosed. So, I am into my 7th year as a breast
cancer survivor. I get annual scans and checks with my doctor but I
am cancer free!!!"
Thank you to Casey for allowing me to photograph your beauty and to Chelsea for being their to support your Mom in so many ways. It was an honor.
Love you, Casey!
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